At 29st 8½lbs, my weight had a huge impact on my health and happiness. Years of bullying had left me feeling like no one cared about me, and I’d become scared to leave the house because I thought I was an embarrassment to my husband, Ian, and my family.
I was so unhappy, and my health was getting worse by the day. I needed Ian’s help to get washed and dressed, and, feeling more and more depressed, I turned to food and alcohol for comfort. I felt like I was eating myself to death.
I just wanted to stay in with Ian and never leave the house.
I’d tried lots of diets over the years, but I could never get my head around any of them. I knew I needed help, so when I heard about Slimming World in January 2018, I told my family that I wanted to join.
When I first joined Rhian’s Bridgend group, I felt too shy to say anything. But gradually the other members helped me learn how to make changes to my diet, like swapping takeaways, fatty meals and junk food for home-cooked meals. I have learning disabilities and used Slimming World’s Easy Read resources to make healthier choices and prepare meals that were really tasty and filling.
Before I joined Slimming World, I was having takeaways every night – especially Chinese – and comfort-eating chocolate every day. Now my eating habits are completely different. I plan all my meals for the week and make sure I stick to it. My favourite dinners are spaghetti bolognese and chilli con carne with lots of vegetables. I also love the Slimming World Iceland meals and serve them with plenty of extra veg.
It’s not just me who’s enjoying the benefits of Slimming World. I’ve been telling my family all about healthy eating, and sharing my food plans and photos with them. When my mum and brother saw me doing so well, they decided to join group, too.
Since losing weight my confidence has soared and I feel like I’ve regained my independence.
As well as being able to shower and dress without any help, I’m comfortable leaving the house by myself to catch a bus or go food shopping. I never did any exercise before; I just wanted to stay indoors. These days, I go to the gym, do workouts, and enjoy swimming and walking.
I had a rough time when I was overweight. Now I’m slimmer, Ian and I have a much better life. I’m no longer housebound, I have the confidence to do things for myself, and Ian doesn’t have to care for me as much. We’re even hoping to go on holiday abroad when restrictions allow. I’m so proud that I’ve reached my target weight and have made so many friends at Slimming World.
Full fry-up breakfast, followed by chocolate, biscuits and regular cola.
Fruit and yogurt, or overnight oats.
Pizza, chips, burgers or fried chicken.
Takeaways, especially Chinese, burgers or fried chicken.
Chilli con carne with lots of veg, such as carrots, spinach, peppers, tomatoes, mushrooms.
Snacks and drinks
Chocolate, and 15 cans of regular cola.
A Hi-fi bar or two, and diet cola.